Your Girlfriend Cheated On You. Now What? Part 2

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What else do you need to know/do when your girlfriend cheats?

The next discussion must be to focus on the positive aspects of your relationship. You must acknowledge problem areas which require repair. Stop letting the past haunt your future. Ideate on positive contributions to improve your relationship.Next, set limits on a repetition of the behavior by your partner. You must ask her to put an end to two-timing once and for all or threaten that you will walk away for good.

Your Girlfriend Cheated On You. Now What? Part 1

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A male friend of mine, who is currently going through some infidelity issues with his girlfriend, has made me to research on this common topic: Courtesy R.Abraham in "Affairs & Infidelity".

When your partner two-times you, it is one of the most painful experiences that you suffer. When one partner is unfaithful it leaves the other shattered and wondering what to do next - whether to end the relationship acrimoniously or salvage it or part as friends.

MTN has changed football viewing – Siasia

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From the Sports Corner, courtesy Punch Newspapers:

Former coach of Nigeria Samson Siasia, on Sunday in Lagos, applauded leading telecommunications company, MTN, for the new dimension it has brought to football viewing in Nigeria.Samson Siasia, who was the special guest at the February edition of the MTN Football Hub, which featured the explosive match of the week between Chelsea and Manchester United, was highly elated at the new approach the firm has brought into the game of soccer. Siasia said, “There is nothing like watching this kind of match in the midst of enthusiastic football fans and analysts gathered here today.

P-Square in rumoured collaboration with Usher, Akon

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On Entertainment News (Courtesy Punch Newspapers):

There has been no official statement to this effect; however, speculations are rife that pop twins, P-Square might have done a song or two with American R n B star, Usher Raymond courtesy their new partnership with Akon. It would be recalled that on a visit to Lagos last December, the Senegalese-born American singer, Akon, stated that he had signed Tuface Idibia, Wizkid and P-Square.While Tuface and Wizkid have since denied the statement, maintaining that they only have a personal, not working, relationship with Akon, P-Square has been pictured at several locations within and outside Nigeria with him.In fact, several pictures posted recently on Twitter by the more gregarious half of the duo, Peter, confirm speculations that Akon features in the twins’ forthcoming video, Chop My Money, off their Invasion album,. They have however been silent on the Usher collaboration which a source close to them says owes to the fact that they want to surprise their fans. The twins, alongside their brother-manager, Jude Okoye, have been in the United States of America since January 1st.

Last Words: What can I say? Nigerian Artists are doing better than we expect them to...Ride On P-square!

XOXO

Simply Cheska.

Zambia victory: Prostitutes offer free sex

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In the News Today (Punch Newspapers)

Prostitutes in Lusaka’s Kanyama, John Laing, Chawama and Kalingalinga compounds offered themselves free of charge to every Jim and Jack as part of their celebration after Zambia beat Ghana 1-0 at the Nations Cup on Wednesday.

What are Friends For?

  
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For the past two days, my mind has been occupied with what the true meaning of friendship means to me...I can safely say that it does depend on the respective individuals involved but friendship is simply loyalty and dedication to each other or one another as the case may be.
Nowadays, people do not value such relationships anymore because the new rule is "what can I get from him/her". This rule, largely determines the level and quality of loyalty and commitment a particular friendship gets from the parties involved. I do understand that friendship like most relationships is a win-win affair. A give and take partnership. I believe that if a particular friendship/relationship is not adding to your personality in a positive way, you are a total loser! You should opt out as soon as you still can. While you are being improved by your friends, ensure that you also contribute to their well being and improvement. No matter how little it may seem to you...Seeds do grow.
I tested a friend of mine recently to see how loyal he is to me and how important I am to him...I told him that I was gay(that was the only way I could test this guy! I am so NOT GAY) and he could not believe his ears and although he tried to preach to me, he explained how much he appreciates my person and contribution to his personality, and how important I am to him...He did say something about his loving me even more for being open and honest about my sexuality...This is the same guy that swore to kill any of his friends that claims to be gay in a Black berry group chat room...*smiles*. Julian, you are a great friend! We have however settled the NOT GAY part....
I dedicate this piece to Pablo, Julian, Olay, Ikey, Rayna, imal, Patty and all my great friends that won't like being mentioned here *wink* I love you! We all need friends that would help place us where our destinies carry us...


XOXO
Simply Cheska.

Female Banker Shot Dead In Lagos...

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In the News Today:(Courtesy Punch Newspapers).

A female banker with the United Bank for Africa,Damilola Sowemimo, was on Sunday killed by two gunmen operating on a motorcycle.

Metro learnt that Sowemimo, 25, was killed while going to church in the morning. It was also learnt that she was killed in front of her parent’s house at 1, Agbor Close, Isolo Way, Ajao Estate.

A friend of the deceased, Tosin Adeboye, told Punch's correspondent that the gunmen came on a commercial motorcycle.

The Real Independent Woman...

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Over the weekend, I saw first-hand how most women are mis understood and taken for granted because they chose to live their lives the way that they deem fit! You might say it's a free world etc. but we must look at how the term independent woman is mis represented in our society today (especially in the Nigerian context).

Life Is Beautiful...

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Welcome back from a very long and restful weekend (at least for me).

 Hope our Muslim Brothers and Sisters had fun and prayed sincerely from their hearts for Peace and Tranquility to reign in Nigeria? I would think so.

How did your weekend go? Mine was not any different from the normal "lazy" routine.*smiles*