Friday 13 September 2013

Did Khloe Kardashian get tested for STDs following Lamar Odom's cheating scandal?

New claims: Reports have emerged alleging Khloe Kardashian had STD tests after Lamar Odom's cheating scandal...


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Their marriage has been rocked as three separate women have come forward to allege that Lamar Odom cheated on Khloe Kardashian with them.
And now it has been claimed that Khloe underwent tests for sexually transmitted diseases several months ago after learning of the alleged affairs.

The source claimed to Radar Online that Khloe ‘was physically sick to her stomach when Lamar admitted that not only had he cheated on her, but didn’t use protection 100 percent of the time.

‘Lamar refused to admit to how many women it was, but Khloe knew it was at least five different women in the past year.’
The insider added: ‘Khloe knew she had to go to the doctor, and was tested for a full range of sexually transmitted diseases. She is healthy, thankfully, but never thought this would happen to her.’
Khloe was seen enjoying some time with her family at Malibu Rocky Oaks Estate Vineyards on Wednesday.

Another blow: The couple's three year marriage has been rocked by a series of allegations
Another blow: The couple's three year marriage has been rocked by a series of allegations...

A representative had no comment on the claims when contacted by Mail Online.
The claims come amid ongoing allegations that Lamar has abused drugs and the basketball pro is allegedly battling an addiction to crack cocaine.
A source has alleged that Lamar has entered an outpatient program to seek treatment but went on to claim that he missed a session on Tuesday.

‘Lamar had been scheduled to meet with a counsellor on Tuesday, but blew off the meeting,’ the insider alleged to Radar Online. 
Khloe, 29, has kept her wedding and engagement rings firmly on amid reports that she is refusing to give up on her three year marriage.

However, she was dealt a new blow on Wednesday when a graduate student came forward claiming to Star Magazine via Radar Online that she has had an 'ongoing relationship with Lamar for more than ten years.'
The ring's the thing: Khloe has kept her wedding band on amid claims she won't give up on her marriage
The ring's the thing: Khloe has kept her wedding band on amid claims she won't give up on her marriage


The ring's the thing: Khloe has kept her wedding band on amid claims she won't give up on her marriage...

Twice as nice: Khloe wore two outfits on Wednesday, stepping out in a bodycon dress earlier in the day
Twice as nice: Khloe wore two outfits on Wednesday, stepping out in a bodycon dress earlier in the day...

Sandy Schultz is the third woman to allege a relationship with 33-year-old Lamar, following claims by Polina Polonsky and Jennifer Richardson.
The 29-year-old told the magazine her relationship with Lamar began six years before he met Khloe and alleges it carried on after they were married.

Schultz claims they dated 'solidly' for two years after meeting in a nightclub in 2003, and then 'on and off for seven years after that.'

In treatment?: It has also been alleged that Lamar, seen at Blockbuster on August 31, has entered an outpatient program
In treatment?: It has also been alleged that Lamar, seen at Blockbuster on August 31, has entered an outpatient program...

On Tuesday reports surfaced that Khloe has allegedly been spying on the former Clipper for one year to gather evidence she can use against him in case she heads into a divorce.
RadarOnline is reporting that Khloe hired a private detective to gather proof of her husband's alleged infidelity because she wants to satisfy a clause in their prenuptial agreement that states the terms of their financial agreement will change if there is proof there was cheating.

In less tough times: Khloe and Lamar are pictured promoting their fragrance Unbreakable Bond in June 2012
In less tough times: Khloe and Lamar are pictured promoting their fragrance Unbreakable Bond in June 2012...


Culled from The Daily Mail UK...


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Anderson Cooper poses up with Andy Cohen at opening of boyfriend's New York gay bar along with Whoopi Goldberg, Alan Cumming, Eve and Kelly Ripa...

Hanging out with friends: Anderson Cooper and Andy Cohen enjoy the party at the opening of Cooper's boyfriend's new bar Atlas Social Club in the Chelsea neighborhood of Manhattan
Hanging out with friends: Anderson Cooper and Andy Cohen enjoy the party at the opening of Cooper's boyfriend's new bar Atlas Social Club in the Chelsea neighborhood of Manhattan..


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Anderson Cooper was living it up on Wednesday night at the raucous opening of his boyfriend's hip new gay bar. 
The CNN anchor was pictured grinning from ear-to-ear and wearing his favorite New Orleans PD T-shirt alongside fellow TV host Andy Cohen at Atlas Social Club in the Chelsea neighborhood of Manhattan.

The private party at the bar, described by the owners as a 'cross between a gay speakeasy and a vintage gym', was packed with celebrity 'friends and family' including Whoopi Goldberg, Alan Cumming, Kelly Ripa, Ellen Barkin and singer Eve.

Atlas Social Club on Ninth Avenue, between 50th and 51st Streets, opens to the public on September 20 but a glimpse inside during the Fashion Week soirée revealed dimly lit lounges, plush sofas and wallpaper made from vintage fitness magazines. 
 
Andy Cohen posted the pic of himself with Cooper on his Instagram with the message: 'Lots of fun last night at #AtlasSocialClub opening with @AndersonCooper - it's a fun new bar on 9th Avenue!'

The snap of the gray-haired stars, who showed off their gym-honed physiques in tight T-shirts,  immediately got a ream of responses from adoring fans.
AlexBrud tweeted 'silver fox' while deefamous_84 wrote: 'My two sexy grays!!!'

Bringing the drama: Actors Alan Cumming and Ellen Barkin attend the opening of the Chelsea bar on Wednesday
Bringing the drama: Actors Alan Cumming and Ellen Barkin attend the opening of the Chelsea bar on Wednesday...

Star support: Bar owners Whoopi Goldberg with owners (left to right) Pablo Raimondi, Josh Wood and Anderson Cooper's boyfriend Benjamin Maisani
Star support: Bar owners Whoopi Goldberg with owners (left to right) Pablo Raimondi, Josh Wood and Anderson Cooper's boyfriend Benjamin Maisani

Party time! The bar owners with friends actress Ellen Barkin, TV host Kelly Ripa and her husband Mark Consuelos
Party time! The bar owners with friends actress Ellen Barkin, TV host Kelly Ripa and her husband Mark Consuelos...

Secret diary of Michael Jackson reveals the King of Pop's desire to be immortalized as a movie star on the big screen...

King of Pop: Megastar Michael Jackson longed to achieve immortality with a successful big-screen career, according to excerpts from his secret diary, recently released among court documents
King of Pop: Megastar Michael Jackson longed to achieve immortality with a successful big-screen career, according to excerpts from his secret diary, recently released among court documents...


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Forget life as a pop megastar - what Michael Jackson really wanted was to be immortalized as a big-screen idol after his death.

The late entertainer admired song and dance stars from the golden age of Hollywood, including his heroes Gene Kelly and Fred Astaire, and wanted to emulate their success.

The 50-year-old singer revealed his deepest desire in his secret diary,  writing: 'If I don’t concentrate (on) film, no immortalization.'
He added that he wanted to be 'better than Kelly and Astaire… the greatest ever.'

The entry was made just months before Michael died of a drug overdose on June 25, 2009 at his home in the posh Holmby Hills neighbourhood of Los Angeles, according to excepts from his diary published by The New York Post's Page Six column today.

The diary reveals just how much the star depended on his now discredited doctor, Conrad Murray, to administer the prescription drugs that helped him to sleep.

Dear diary: Michael recorded his secret dreams and desires in his diary, before his death in 2009 aged 50
Dear diary: Michael recorded his secret dreams and desires in his diary, before his death in 2009 aged 50...

'Conrad must practice now,' Jackson wrote. 'I can’t be tired after procedure to important Rim (sic) sleep.'
Michael also wrote about his plans for the future. 
The King of Pop wanted Broadway theater producers to create a play about his life so he could become the 'first multi-billionaire entertainer-actor-director.'

Big act: Michael also had big ambitions for a Broadway production based on his life
Big act: Michael also had big ambitions for a Broadway production based on his life...

In fact, Michael was billions of dollars in debt due to U.S. tax authorities at the time.
Jackson also planned to launch a line of merchandise, including soda and cookies, according to the diary.
Lawyers for Michael's mother Katherine Jackson are now trying to get passages of the diary admitted as evidence to back up a wrongful death suit against London concert promoter AEG. 
Michael was rehearsing for an unprecedented 50 gigs planned at AEG's O2 Arena in London in the weeks before his death.

Hollywood hoofers: Michael admired song and dance stars Gene Kelly, left, and Fred Astaire, who ruled the silver screen in Hollywood's golden age of the 1940s and 50s
Hollywood hoofers: Michael admired song and dance stars Gene Kelly, left, and Fred Astaire, who ruled the silver screen in Hollywood's golden age of the 1940s and 50s...



Culled from The Daily Mail UK...

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Getting their kits off: Game of Thrones star Kit Harington shows off his muscles as Pretty Little Liars' Julian Morris bares almost all in steamy shoot...

It's a hunk off: Games of Thrones star Kit Harrington stars in a steamy shoot for the new issue of Wonderland magazine
It's a hunk off: Games of Thrones star Kit Harrington stars in a steamy shoot for the new issue of Wonderland magazine...


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They star in two major TV hits and it looks like Game of Thrones actor Kit Harington and Pretty Little Liars hunk Julian Morris have more in common than just their sky rocketing careers.
The two actors both strip off for the new issue of Wonderland magazine.
Showing off their muscles in the steamy shoots, Julian in particular will get hearts racing as he bares almost all.

The September issue of Wonderland sees Game of Thrones star Kit on the cover, showing off his leading man looks in an extreme close-up.
Inside the magazine, Pretty Little Liars actor Julian is seen in a risqué spread, with the black and white shots showing the 30-year-old Londoner posing with just a strategically placed towel.

Baring almost all: Pretty Little Liars actor Julian Morris also stars in the issue, wearing very little clothing
Baring almost all: Pretty Little Liars actor Julian Morris also stars in the issue, wearing very little clothing...

26-year-old Kit also stars in a series of shots, but with slightly more clothes on as he poses shirtless.
The actor, who plays the Night’s Watch Jon Snow in the hit series, also appears in a glossy spread with the magazine’s second cover star of the month, Downton Abbey’s Lily James.

Brooding: Julian, who also stars in Once Upon A Time, strips off for Wonderland
Brooding: Julian, who also stars in Once Upon A Time, strips off for Wonderland...

In the retro styled photos shot by Cuneyt Akeroglu, Kit models designer dregs from the likes of Louis Vuitton and Antony Morato.
In an accompanying interview Kit opened up about his breakout role as the upstanding Snow, revealing:
‘I realized the other day I’m basically the only character in the show who’s never sworn!’

He's found his clothes! Kit also stars in a retro inspired shoot, dressed in designer pieces
He's found his clothes! Kit also stars in a retro inspired shoot, dressed in designer pieces...

‘It’s weird, this is a big season for me, it’s great as usually he just grunts and says “Nooo” or “Yes”. And this season he speaks a lot, but he still doesn’t f***ing swear!’
‘I asked “Can I put a f*** in here?” then realised he doesn’t do that, it just wouldn’t fit with the character.’
Despite his lack of cursing, Kit admits that he loves playing the role:

Cover star: Kit is dripping wet on the cover of the September issue of Wonderland, in stores now
Wonderful: Lily James looks flawless in the shoot, which was photographed by Cuneyt Akeroglu and styled by Grace Cobb

Cover stars: Kit Harington apepars on the September issue of Wonderland, in stores now,  as does Downton Abbey actress Lily James...

The Duchess of Cambridge glitters in pale gold sequins as she attends first red carpet event since birth of Prince George...

The Duchess of Cambridge arriving at the inaugural Tusk Conservation Awards at the Royal Society in London...


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The Duchess of Cambridge attended her first red carpet event since becoming a mother this evening.
31-year-old Kate beamed as she accompanied husband William to the Tusk foundation gala dinner at The Royal Society in London.
She wore a glittering floor-length Jenny Packham dress covered in sequins with her brunette hair carefully curled over her shoulders and simple, pretty make-up.

Kate finished the look with sparkling stiletto heels and diamond jewellery. 
William, who wore smart black tie, is a patron of the Tusk charity, and expected to make a speech at the end of the awards ceremony which will be hosted by journalist Kate Silverton.

Tonight's awards aim to celebrate outstanding achievement in the field of African conservation, recognizing the achievements of individuals who are ensuring the future of Africa and bringing the challenges faced by the continent to a global audience.

New mother Kate chose a dazzling gown by British designer Jenny Packham for the event
New mother Kate chose a dazzling gown by British designer Jenny Packham for the event...

Catherine Duchess of Cambridge
Catherine Duchess of Cambridge
Natural beauty: The Duchess wore her hair loose around her shoulders, with understated make-up save for her dramatic smoky eyes...

William, who wore smart black tie, is a patron of the Tusk charity, and expected to make a speech at the end of the awards ceremony
Prince William, Duke of Cambridge
Important occasion: William is patron of the Tusk Foundation, and the couple's appearance at the gala dinner is their first since moving to London...

Just last month, Kate made her first public appearance since the birth of Prince George when she attended the Anglesey ultra-marathon with William. 
Back in her skinny jeans just five weeks after having her son on July 22, Kate looked sensational - without the slightest sign of baby fatigue - in a green tweed hacking jacket, Zara top and J Brand jeans.

Then, Prince William had revealed that Kate was bearing the brunt of the night duties - and that their son was proving to be quite a nocturnal little fellow. 

Careful: She was sure to slightly pull up the front of the Packham gown to avoid disaster as she took the stairs in the floor length gown and towering heels
Careful: She was sure to slightly pull up the front of the Packham gown to avoid disaster as she took the stairs in the floor length gown and towering heels...

Kate finished her look with towering snakeskin stilettos
Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge
Finishing touches: The Duchess completed her look with her favourite size 38 1/2 silver snakeskin platform sandals by Jimmy Choo...



Culled from The Daily Mail UK...

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Nigerians see new-look Mikel with Keshi...


Mikel Obi
Mikel Obi...


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Pius Ayinor examines Mikel Obi’s change of attitude and the impact on the Super Eagles

After the game against Malawi last Saturday, Nigeria coach, Stephen Keshi heaped praises on Super Eagles and Chelsea midfielder, Mikel Obi. Keshi said that the midfielder had been at his best under him.

Mikel made distinct impression on the field against a boastful Malawi team and was deservedly voted the Most Valuable Player in the game. For the immediate reward, he got the TomTom $5,000 set aside for the MVP.

But he was not just establishing himself as a midfielder to be relied on with the World Cup qualifying match in Calabar. He was in full control of Nigeria’s movements during the Africa Cup of Nations in South Africa in February. For his work rate, he and his teammates got rewarded with the African cup after a long wait since 1994. But perhaps the most enterprising outing so far in recent times for the Chelsea star remains the FIFA Confederations Cup which held in Brazil. It was a competition that brought to fore the attacking prowess of the young Nigerian.

The little boy who ate his garden: Zach, 6, can't tell what 'normal' food is - and his favourite snack is MOSS...

Zach Tahir, six, cannot tell the difference between edible and inedible objects. His mother, Rachel Horn, 32, raised £7,000 to pay for a new, inedible garden for him to play in
Zach Tahir, six, cannot tell the difference between edible and inedible objects. His mother, Rachel Horn, 32, raised £7,000 to pay for a new, inedible garden for him to play in...


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A little boy who has a rare condition which means he cannot distinguish between edible and inedible objects has been given a new, inedible garden - after the ate the old one. 

Zach Tahir suffers from pica, an eating disorder which causes him to eat inappropriate objects, and with moss being one of his favourite snacks, his family garden in Salford, Greater Manchester, has until now been out of bounds.
In the past, the six-year-old has been known to eat stones, paper and even the blinds in his bedroom.

However, he now has a newly-landscaped outdoor area, which cost £7,100, and comes complete with artificial grass, a submerged trampoline and play equipment with rounded edges which are impossible for Zach to get his teeth into.

His mother, Rachel Horn, raised the funds for the garden by organizing a charity comedy night.
Ms Horn, 32, said: ‘It’s great. Zach loves it and it’s so much safer for him.

‘Before it was slushy and muddy so we couldn't go out there, particularly as Zach is particularly keen on eating moss.
‘He can’t eat anything in it, which is the most important thing.

‘If a leaf falls down before I've had time to get rid of it then he might try and eat that but otherwise I can feel so much happier about him being outside.’

Zach (pictured with his mother in his new garden) has pica, an eating disorder which means he eats inappropriate objects. He is also autistic and cannot speak
Zach (pictured with his mother in his new garden) has pica, an eating disorder which means he eats inappropriate objects. He is also autistic and cannot speak...

Zach has been known to eat moss, stones, paper and even the blinds in his bedroom. Before the new garden was built, he could not be let out alone as he would eat mud and grass
Zach has been known to eat moss, stones, paper and even the blinds in his bedroom. Before the new garden was built, he could not be let out alone as he would eat mud and grass...

Zach’s new garden was built just months after he was given an inedible bedroom, costing £36,000, after his cravings reached a whole new level and he gnawed through the walls. 
‘There’s no limit to what he will try and eat,’ said Ms Horn.

‘He likes things that are textured, and moss has always been his favourite, as he can mull them around and chew on them for a while.
‘It’s very worrying for me as a parent, because you never know what kind of germs he could be taking in.
‘But in the garden, he can’t get to the street and he’s completely safe.’

Zach also had to have a new, £36,000 bedroom because he started eating his way through the walls. The new bedroom has been specially designed to stop him gnawing on it
Zach also had to have a new, £36,000 bedroom because he started eating his way through the walls. The new bedroom has been specially designed to stop him gnawing on it...

The garden is believed to be the first of its kind for pica sufferers, and contains lots of other sensory features for Zach, who is also autistic and cannot speak.
Ms Horn, who gave up her job in a bank to look after Zach full-time said: ‘It’s all open now. 
‘There are no obstacles so he can run around in circles without bumping into things.

‘He’s got his own little slide and he has poles that he can run in and out of.
‘There are multi-coloured lights and he has soft play areas which mean he can bounce around without hurting himself.

Ms Horn said: 'The garden is great. Zach loves it and it's so much safer for him. Before it was slushy and muddy so we couldn't go out there, particularly as Zach is keen on eating moss'
Ms Horn said: 'The garden is great. Zach loves it and it's so much safer for him. Before it was slushy and muddy so we couldn't go out there, particularly as Zach is keen on eating moss'...

The garden includes a hammock, inedible fake grass, water features, poles for Zach to run in and out of and a trampoline
The garden includes a hammock, inedible fake grass, water features, poles for Zach to run in and out of and a trampoline...

‘The best part is that there are no corners that he could pull up and start gnawing on.
‘It’s perfect because when he’s older, everything in the garden will still suit him.’

Na’Abba, Turaki others may replace sacked ministers...

Tanimu Turaki
Tanimu Turaki...


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President Goodluck Jonathan’s strategists and close associates have begun pushing for the appointment of grass-roots politicians to replace the nine sacked ministers.

The PUNCH gathered in Abuja on Thursday that the strategists and aides believe that states, whose governors are considered hostile to Jonathan should produce persons who are politically astute and brave enough to take on their governors’ political structures.

In Kano for example, it was learnt that a former Speaker of the House of Representatives, Umar Na’abba, and a former aide to the President, Dr. Akilu Ndabawa, were being considered for the state’s ministerial slot.

There is no love lost between Na’Abba and Kwakwanso. It was even speculated at a time that the President almost nominated Na’Abba for ministerial position at the beginning of his tenure but was allegedly advised against it by ex-President Olusegun Obasanjo.

Ndabawa, on his part, is considered “brave” enough to take on the Kwankwasiyya, the governor’s political organisation.

This, according to a source, is because he was once a member of Kwakwanso’s inner caucus and still had friends within it.

In Jigawa State, a former governor of the state, Alhaji Saminu Turaki, may stage a comeback to the political scene.

It was learnt he had a private audience with Jonathan during his recent visit to Kenya.

“The ex-governor could be considered because he is a grass-roots politician,”our source said.

The source however expressed fears that Turaki’s ongoing trial by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission could pose a challenge to his nomination for ministerial slot.

Ozekhome home, recounts ordeal in kidnappers’ den...

Scenes at Ozekhome’s house
Scenes at Ozekhome's home...


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Human rights activist, Mike Ozekhome, who was kidnapped for two weeks, returned home on Thursday to a rousing welcome.

A cow was slaughtered to entertain people who had come to make sure that he was indeed safe and sound.

The lawyer, who was kidnapped between Ehor and Ekpoma Road in Edo State and released on Wednesday, narrated his ordeal to well wishers at his home on Mike Ozekhome Lane, Igando, Lagos State.

While addressing the crowd in company with his wife, Josephine and son, Ilugbekai, the Senior Advocate of Nigeria called for a four-minute silence for the four policemen from the Ehor Police Division, who were killed while attempting to rescue him.

He said, “My ordeal began on Friday August 23, 2013. I left Benin at 2pm for my home town.

“I ran into the kidnappers some minutes past 3pm. It was my driver, Chinedu, who noticed that a vehicle had been used to block the road and he told me that the people were armed robbers. So, I told him to quickly turn, but before he could turn, a gun was already on my head. one of the men said if he moved an inch they would kill me.

“So, I told my driver to stay put. They dragged Chinedu and I out of the car, shot the tyres of the vehicle and locked him in the boot and made me lied flat on the floor of their car. I heard them say, Police! Police! Police! They also added, ‘no retreat no surrender.’

Vatican may discuss marriage for Catholic priests...

Pope Francis
Pope Francis...


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In what is an unprecedented move, the Vatican has opened the door to the possibility of Catholic priests being allowed to marry.

For centuries Catholic Church tradition has required celibacy from priests. The Canon Law of the church states, “Clerics are obliged to observe perfect and perpetual continence for the sake of the kingdom of heaven, and therefore are bound to celibacy, which is a special gift of God by which sacred ministers can adhere more easily to Christ with an undivided heart and are able to dedicate themselves more freely to the service of God and humanity.”

However, News Express on Thursday reported that Archbishop Pietro Parolin, the incoming Number Two leader in the Catholic Church when be becomes secretary of state next month, had declared that priestly vow of celibacy derived from an age-old rule but was not Catholic dogma.

“It’s not a dogma of the Church and it can be discussed because it’s an ecclesiastical tradition,” Archbishop Parolin told El Universal in Venezuela, where he is completing his term as Papal Nuncio.

This has been interpreted to mean that the church under reformist-minded Pope Francis I would welcome married priesthood if most Catholics so desire.

The number of priests has been declining steadily partly because of the rule on celibacy. In the United States alone, about 30,000 priests have left because they wanted to pursue a relationship.

“I think it would be an enormously welcome conversation,” Thomas Groome, a professor of theology at Boston College, USA, told interviewers. “I think Catholics, certainly American Catholics, but Catholics of the world, have been waiting for this conversation.”

Groome said that the idea of complete celibacy among the clergy only started to become standard practice in the 11th, 12th, and 13th centuries.

He added, “As far as we can tell from the Gospels, all of the apostles were married, with the possible exception of John.”


Culled from The Punch Nigeria...

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Thursday 12 September 2013

Nicole's Konnect Konsulting Special Piece: 10 Things Job-Seekers Must Do to Get a Better Job...



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Nicole's Konnect Konsulting, a business service firm that specializes on linking consumers to the right business providers have decided to publish this piece to enlighten her Human resources specialists and the simple job seeker out there. NKK has a wide team of professionals in the field of Human Resources, Research, Freight/logistics and procurement, Legal/Immigration; Brand and events management. These professionals are experts in their respective fields and are 100% concerned about customers' satisfaction. If you have a business need, let NKK link you to the right person/people that would meet that need...


... rather than complaining, take some advice from Jim Rohn: “Things will get better for you, when you get better.”

I've just agreed with OpenSesame.com (a video-based training company) to prepare a short podcast series for job-seekers based on my book, The Essential Guide for Hiring & Getting Hired. The company wants 10, 4-5 minute mobile-ready videos highlighting everything a person needs to do to get a job. This is no easy task. So rather than attempt the feat alone, I thought I’d summarize the topics below, and host a webcast for job-seekers (here’s the link to sign-up for the Oct 10 event) to get their input. Of course, if you’re a job-seeker feel free to add you viewpoints, questions, frustrations and ideas to the comments below.

As you’re aware, the latest hiring report wasn't too upbeat, and on Tuesday (September 10, 2013), the Department of Labor reported that the total number of open jobs available hasn’t increased in the past six months. So expect more of the same on the hiring front for the foreseeable future.

Given this state of the economy, the best thing any job-seeker can do to get a better job is to be more thorough, more savvy and more aggressive. The following are some basic guidelines for the thorough and savvy parts. These are not optional. Neither is the aggressive part, but I’ll leave that up to you.

Some Big Ideas Job-seekers Must Follow if They Want to Get a Meaningful Job

1: Applying directly to job postings should represent no more than 20% of what you do. Getting referred to a job is 5-10X more effective than applying directly. If you’re going to apply, only apply to jobs when you’re a perfect fit for the skills and experience listed on the job description.

2: Leverage your understanding of the recruiter’s role. Many recruiters are gatekeepers who don’t know the job and will just box-check your skills and experiences. Others are extremely talented, who want to work with the best people to craft great career moves. You must avoid the former and seek out the latter.

3: Implement a 20/20/60 job-hunting plan. A job hunting plan requires a performance-based resume, an understanding of how recruiters find candidates, and applying through the backdoor. Networking is the key to the backdoor. It must represent 60% of what you need to do.

4: Focus on the job, not the money. It’s better to be underpaid than overpaid. Getting promoted or obtaining a big compensation increase will only occur after you’ve demonstrated great performance. You need to put yourself into these situations. Ignore anyone who says otherwise.

5: Present your strengths and weaknesses via short stories. No one believes general statements. You must validate each of your strengths with a specific example of how it was used in a real job situation. In addition, you need to demonstrate how you’ve turned your weaknesses into strengths. Never say you don’t have any weaknesses! It means you’ve stopped growing.

6: Divide and conquer by asking the universal question. Very early in the interview, or phone screen, you must ask the interviewer to describe the focus of the job, some of the big challenges, and how the new person’s performance will be measured. Pick at least two from this list. Then prove each is a core strength using the SAFW response below.

7: Practice the universal answer to any question. You need to be able to prove every strength with a specific example. Form your answer using the SAFW two-minute response: Say A Few Words – Statement – Amplify – few Examples – Wrap-up.

8: Weave the 10 Best Predictors of Job Success into Your SAFW Response. I just wrote a post for interviewers on how to evaluate your answers. Make sure you have an example proving you possess at least three or four of these strengths. Then during the interview ask if these traits are important for on-the-job success. Of course they will be. Then give your example. Note: this is a slam dunk!

9: Use the phone screen to minimize the impact of a weak first impression. Even if you make a good first impression, it’s important to ask the universal question (see above) early in the phone screen. Answering it correctly will increase the likelihood you’ll be invited to an onsite interview. This will help focus the actual interview on your past performance, instead of box-checking your skills and experience, or judging you on first impressions.

10: Uncover any concerns before the end of the interview. To determine where you stand, ask the interviewer about next steps. If they’re not specific, you probably won’t be called back. In this case, ask the interviewer what’s the biggest concern he/she has about your background. Then ask how the skill, trait or factor mentioned is used on the job. To overcome the concern, you’ll need to use the SAFW two-minute response to prove you can handle the requirement.

Getting a job is no fun. It’s hard work. But working hard on the wrong things is a waste of time. So rather than complaining, take some advice from Jim Rohn: “Things will get better for you, when you get better.” Learning the ten techniques above is a great way to start.

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Lou Adler (@LouA) is the CEO of The Adler Group, a full-service talent acquisition consulting firm. His latest book, The Essential Guide for Hiring & Getting Hired (Workbench, 2013), covers the Performance-based Hiring process described in this article in more depth. For instant hiring advice join Lou's LinkedIn group and follow his Wisdom About Work series on Facebook.


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Watch the face! Charlie Hunnam sports eye abrasions on set of Sons of Anarchy a week after landing Fifty Shades of Grey role...

Hollywood star: Charlie Hunnam sported facial cuts on Wednesday on the set Sons Of Anarchy filming in Los Angeles
Hollywood star: Charlie Hunnam sported facial cuts on Wednesday on the set Sons Of Anarchy filming in Los Angeles...


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Me talking: I sincerely cannot wait to see the long awaited Season 6 of the amazing "Sons of Anarchy" series. I am so excited!


Thankfully they were just for violent television show Sons of Anarchy because the nasty eye abrasions sported by Charlie Hunnam on Wednesday would not become a certain Mr Grey. 
The 33-year-old actor was spotted on the Los Angeles set of the FX show a week after landing the hot role in the film adaptation of the erotic novel Fifty Shades Of Grey.

Charlie was in full costume and sported the injury make-up as he portrayed his motorcycle club character Jackson 'Jax' Teller.

He was wearing a plain white T-shirt, black jeans and bright white sneakers.
The actor had his blonde hair slicked back, sported a goatee and had a keychain dangling from his pocket.

Charlie was spotted on the set signing autographs for fans a day after Sons Of Anarchy broadcast its season six premiere.

On the set: Charlie looked ready for the rough action typically seen on Sons Of Anarchy
On the set: Charlie looked ready for the rough action typically seen on Sons Of Anarchy

On the set: Charlie looked ready for the rough action typically seen on Sons Of Anarchy...

Fan favourite: Charlie took a break to sign an autograph for a fan
Fan favourite: Charlie took a break to sign an autograph for a fan...

Club members: Charlie and co-star Theo Rossi exchanged salutations on the set
Club members: Charlie and co-star Theo Rossi exchanged salutations on the set...

He and co-star Theo Rossi bumped fists on the set as the mohawked Rossi gave him a grin.
Katey Sagal also was on the set in full regalia as motorcycle club matriarch Gemma Teller Morrow wearing skinny jeans and a black leather jacket.

Kim Coates donned his biker gear on the set and looked menacing as violent motorcycle club member Tig Trager.

Motorcycle club matriarch: Katey Sagal was spotted on the set in wardrobe as her Gemma Teller Morrow character
Motorcycle club matriarch: Katey Sagal was spotted on the set in wardrobe as her Gemma Teller Morrow character...

To the point: Maggie Schiff held onto her big black boots while on the set
To the point: Maggie Schiff held onto her big black boots while on the set...

Maggie Siff also was on the set in an all-black ensemble and was carrying a pair of large black boots around. Maggie portrays Hunnam's love interest Tara Knowles on the show.
The popular crime drama ended its season six premiere on Tuesday with scenes depicting a school shooting.

Sons Of Anarchy was created by Kurt Sutter, 53, and focuses on a fictional outlaw motorcycle club operating in California's Central Valley.

Tough guy: Kim Coates was on the set in costume as his extremely violent character Tig Trager

Tough guy: Kim Coates was on the set in costume as his extremely violent character Tig Trager...

Recurring character: Jimmy Smits returned for season six as Nero Padilla
Recurring character: Jimmy Smits returned for season six as Nero Padilla...


Culled from The Daily Mail UK...

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Simply Cheska...